Thursday, January 5, 2017

Recent Reads

I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but I've always been a huge bookworm. When I was little my head was always in a book, and unfortunately usually a bucket hat too. These days I have a lot of time to read during my daily commute into River North, and I usually go through about a book a week. I had a little more time over my break from work plus had a couple of overlapping library books that I had to finish in a hurry, so I've gotten through a lot of books over the past couple of weeks. Here's what I've been reading:




The Mothers: A story about two best friends and how decisions can ripple through your life for years to come, The Mothers was a book that really stuck with me. The book follows two girls who have both suffered loss as they grow from high schoolers to adults, and find that their lives are more intwined than they could have imagined. I thought the characters were really relatable and the writing compelling, and I found it really interesting that the story was told through the eyes of "The Mothers," the church ladies in their community. This was one of my favorites of the year. 

Secrets of a Charmed Life: I should have known from the cover that this wouldn't be my favorite, but I have a soft spot for historical fiction about WWII, so I decided to give it a chance. The story takes place in London, where two sisters have to be evacuated to the countryside ahead of the Blitz. One girl's ambition takes her back into the city, which has unintended consequences that tear their family apart. Ultimately, I could see every twist coming a mile away and thought the conclusion was a little too far-fetched, making it hard for me to love it. If you're looking for an easy historical read though, this still may be your jam. 

Losing It: If you're looking for a fun, easy read, this is the one! Losing It follows the life of Julia, a twenty-six year old virgin, as she moves in with her aunt for the summer with the goal of losing it. I actually ended up reading the whole thing in one flight, and kept holding myself back from laughing out loud at Julia's awkwardness and the situations she keeps getting herself into. The story was hilarious but also touching, and Julia was so relatable and fun that I was definitely rooting for her and her v-card the whole book! 

Heroes of the Frontier: I so, so wanted to love this since some of Dave Egger's other books have been my absolute favorites, but I thought Heroes of the Frontier just missed the mark. The story follows a single mother, Josie, and her two children as they run away from reality to Alaska, where they drive through the wilderness in a rusty old motorhome narrowly escaping one disaster after another and, of course, finding themselves. Ultimately, Josie and her mid-life crisis felt forced and unrelatable, and the situations she got the family into implausible - I literally laughed out loud at how crazy the ending was. Maybe next time, Mr. Eggers, maybe next time. 

So tell me, what have you been reading lately? Any good recommendations? 



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Wednesday, January 4, 2017

A Little Day Date


Tee and Pants - J. Crew Factory / Sweater (similar) - LOFT / Scarf (super similar, similar for less than $10!) - Forever 21 / Boots (almost exact, gorgeous tan version) - Bandolino / Bag - Sole Society / Earrings and Ring - BaubleBar / Lip - Bare Minerals (in Juju)

Last week I took the whole week off of work for a little rest and relaxation. I wanted to do a little staycation here in Chicago had a lot of things planned for the week. Jeff was supposed to have the whole week off too but ended up having to work several hours every day, so we didn't end up having enough time to squeeze everything in.

We did, however, manage to make it downtown for a little day date! We wandered around Millennium Park in the cold and saw the Bean and the big Christmas tree, which was especially fun for me because I used to work a block away from the park so I'd go just about every day. After that we went up to Cindy's for lunch and a few cocktails. Cindy's is on top of the Athletic Club and has a beautiful view of the park and Lake Michigan. I made a reservation even though we were going really early, which meant they put us at one of the best tables right next to the windows - it was so gorgeous!!

The food at Cindy's was so good too - we freaking loved the tartine, and I even managed to get Jeff to share a salad with me, which is impressive because usually when we get small plates he only wants meat and more meat. I also accidentally ordered a cocktail that had scotch in it - whoops! Once I realized the mishap and ordered something I would actually like, I really loved the cocktails too.

After lunch Jeff had to go home to do a little more work, while I wandered the Magnificent Mile for some slightly tipsy afternoon shopping - always exciting ;) Now if only I could have another week off of work to explore the city!













Tee and Pants - J. Crew Factory / Sweater (similar) - LOFT / Scarf (super similar, similar for less than $10!) - Forever 21 / Boots (almost exact, gorgeous tan version) - Bandolino / Bag - Sole Society / Earrings and Ring - BaubleBar / Lip - Bare Minerals (in Juju)


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Previously on KDTI - stripes!

 

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Tuesday, January 3, 2017

The 2016 Budget

Welcome to my shopping budget recap for 2016! For the past three years, I've set a monthly clothing budget for myself of $300/month, but I'm not super strict on myself - if I go over one month, I'll try to real it in the next and vice versa. My budget includes everything I wear except for undergarments, pajamas, and workout clothes, and does include bigger ticket items like shoes, coats, and special occasion dresses.

This year I struggled with my budget in that I started to find it limiting. It's probably because I'm now working in an area with higher-end stores, but I did start to feel like I couldn't buy anything I really wanted. I did not, however, struggle in staying under budget - I just bought less. And actually, in looking back at my year overall, I didn't buy that many things that I now regret, so I guess I did okay ;) 

Here's my monthly breakdown for what I spent this year: 

January - $158.37
February - $293.60
March - $246.74
April - $223.72
May - $409.49
June - $276.30
July - $284.65
August - $339.27
September - $212.94
October - $340.66
November - $237.90
December - $445.94

Total Spent: $3,469.58
Average Monthly Spend: $289.13

That total might seem like a lot for the year, but for me the majority of my clothing budget comes out of my "extra money" that I get from freelancing and affiliate links on this blog (p.s. thanks for clicking!).

So, like I said, I don't think there were a ton of misses this year, but I do have a couple of purchases that probably should have hit the return pile: 



J.Crew Factory Drapey Tee - originally $59.50, on sale $39.50. I bought this near the end of summer, and I just really wasn't interested in wearing the color after a week or two. The sizing also isn't perfect on me. Who knows though, it may get some use next summer.
Old Navy Fringe Sandals - originally $22.94, on sale + used credits $11.76. I think in my brain I thought I'd be going to the pool a lot and need some slides. Um, no. The only time I went to a pool all summer was when we were in Tahoe scoping out celebrities, and I don't think these sandals even came along for the ride.
Old Navy Tee Dress - originally $24.94, on sale $10.70. I really liked this dress when I got it, but I think it washed weird - after the first wear I never thought it was flattering. 
Gap Tote - originally $54.95, on sale $22.97. I used this tote exactly one time and then forgot about it. I guess I didn't need it!
Gap Shift Dress - originally $59.95, on sale $35.97. Ehh. This just ended up feeling a little too tomboy, I think I only wore it once or twice.

So... maybe I should stop shopping the super sales at Old Navy and Gap? 

I had a really hard time narrowing down my favorite purchases of the year because I really love everything, but here are my favorite purchases for 2016: 


Coach Riding Boots - originally $265, on sale $158.90.
Sole Society Bliss Drop Earrings - $34.95. 
Sam Edelman Lace-up Heels: $130.
J.Crew Factory Striped Shirttail Sweatshirt - originally $65, on sale $44.50.
endless rose Pom Pom Dress - originally $71.00, on sale $49.70.
J. Crew Factory Scalloped Linen Top - originally $75, on sale $44.50.
TOMs Booties - $138.95.
Old Navy Distressed White Jeans - originally $36.94, on sale $19.67.

I would write a little description for each item, but basically I love them all and wore them a ton. With the exception, that is, of the little white dress - I only got to sneak in a few wears before the temperatures dropped. I'm planning on wearing it nonstop in 2017 though! 

So, what are my thoughts for 2017? To combat my issue of feeling like I couldn't buy the things I really wanted, I considered switching to a quarterly or annual budget, but like I said last year, I really prefer the structure of the monthly budget - it really helps me stay on track. That being said, I am going to make a change. Since my income has increased since 2013 when I first started budgeting, from my day job, blogging, and freelancing, I decided an increase on the clothing budget is in order. For 2017, I'm going to target spending $350 or less each month, with an annual budget of $4,200. We'll see how it goes! 

So tell me, did you budget in 2016? Are you planning to budget in 2017? 

P.S. You would not believe how many times I typed the wrong year in this post. Not just, like, 2015 or 2016 - I caught myself typing 2012 at one point. What?! 

P.P.S. Check out my 2015 and 2014 budget recaps! 



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Friday, December 30, 2016

Friday Finds

Oh hello there, happy Friday! I was off this week, and uncharacteristically, I spent a lot of time shopping in stores (I'm usually an online girl all the way), and I. Didn't. Buy. ANYTHING. I really just didn't find anything I really wanted. The problem is I'm somehow already done with sweaters and winter wear. I just don't want another basic sweater. The only thing I really contemplated bringing home was a pair of patterned shorts, but I talked myself out of them because I don't have any warm weather plans until April. Le sigh. I think I'm going to make it through until spring by looking for pretty details like lace and cutouts, or maybe just hibernate for a few months ;)

Today Jeff and I are heading to Las Vegas!!! We booked a last minute trip to go with Jeff's dad and his *new* fiancee (they got engaged on Christmas Eve!) and I'm super excited about it - we're planning on doing a little gambling, a little spa-ing, and a whole lot of eating and drinking ;) We ended up booking a gala dinner for New Year's Eve, which means we'll be ringing in the new year with a tasting menu, lots of champagne, dancing, and fireworks. I typically don't like NYE, but I think the plans we made are basically the perfect way to do it. I'm currently packing up the cute little suitcase I gifted myself for Christmas with everything sparkly in my closet, and signing off until the new year. I won't be posting on Monday because I plan on really sleeping in, but I'll be back on Tuesday with my big budget recap for the year. See you then!!!

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Thursday, December 29, 2016

Best Looks of 2016

It's the end of another year, so here are some of my favorite looks from 2016. It's funny having this record of everything I wore this year. There were a lot of outfits I still love, and also some I would definitely never wear again. And lots where I'm having some interesting hair days ;) It's like having a visual diary, I can look back and remember what I was doing on each of these days and where I was. Here's to a great 2017! 









Blazer (Factory version) / Booties / Bracelet (currently on sale)











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Shirt / Shorts / Bracelet (currently on sale) / Necklace



Earrings (50% off!) / Bracelet (currently on sale)






Tee / Shorts / Bag / Flats / Bracelet 

















P.S. Favorite looks from 2015, 2014, and 2013.



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Wednesday, December 28, 2016

December Budget

Every month I post about my clothing budget. My budget per month is $300, which to some may seem like a lot and to others a little, but feels just right for me. You can read my thoughts on my 2015 budget here. 

I hate to say this, because it starts to get redundant when I repeat myself every month, but holy crap, how did we get to the end of December already? And for that matter, the end of the year?! I was looking back through my budget posts for the year to prep for my big annual clothing budget recap post (coming next week!) and realized I was way under budget for the year, so I decided to loosen the purse strings a little this month and went a bit over budget. Really, I would have been close, except that I saw this adorable Vineyard Vines plaid dress and had to have it for Christmas. I only wore it a couple of times, but I’m sure it’s going to be a staple for many Christmases to come.

Another purchase I was really excited about are these Coach riding boots. Chicago is supposed to be really cold this winter, and I realized about three days into December that my ankle boot collection was not going to cut it this year. I’m still breaking them in so they aren’t quite as comfy yet as my go-to riding boots that have been around for years (which I somehow managed to wear for a three mile walk through the Loop, River North, and the Gold Coast yesterday!), but I’m pretty sure they’re going to get there. A word of warning - these definitely have a super narrow calf (here’s the wide calf version if you need it). They’re snug on me and I never need wide calf anything.

So anyways, enough babbling. Here’s the damage for December:


Vineyard Vines Dress - originally $198, on sale $148.50.
Coach Riding Boots - originally $265, on sale $158.90.
Gap Jeans - originally $89.95, on sale and used rewards $33.18.
Sole Society Studded Heels - originally $69.95, on sale $59.46.
Charming Charlie Bow Earrings - $10.
BaubleBar Tassel Earrings - originally $32, on sale $22.40.
J. Crew Factory Striped Tee - originally $34.50, on sale $13.50.

Total Spent: $445.94
Total Saved: $253.46

So, like I said, a bit over, but I’m facing a surplus for the year overall so I’m not feeling bad about it.

I’ll share my thoughts on my purchases for the year next week, but for January at least I’ll be shopping for pieces that feel a little more special. This year I’ve gone crazy on basics, which are all great things to have, but I feel like I’m lacking things that are exciting in my closet. I want a couple of things that I’m really excited to wear, for date nights, parties, and when I need to dress up a little for work.

So tell me, did you budget in December? How did you do?


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Tuesday, December 27, 2016

This Weekend...


This weekend we had a great time celebrating the holiday with our families and friends! Hold on to your hats if you're ready for an especially long post haha ;)

On Wednesday, we went to Jeff's dad's holiday party down at Flo & Santo's, which was our favorite pizza place when we lived in the South Loop. Flo & Santo's is actually a fun combo of an Italian and Polish restaurant, so there were also pierogis everywhere - yum! I somehow managed to drink a million glasses of prosecco so I was not feeling great the next day, but it was a lot of fun, so, you know, worth it ;)

On Thursday we drove up to my parents' house to go to a party at our neighborhood friends' house. We get together for a theme party and some aggressive games every year and it's always so fun. This year the theme was Vegas because a bunch of us are heading there for New Year's Eve, so the games involved a lot of gambling (and quite a few allegations of cheating ;) - Jeff came away as one of the winners this year!

On Friday after we drove all over the suburbs trying to finish up our Christmas shopping, Jeff and I decided to have a little Christmas date night at home. We opened a fancy bottle of wine, changed into Christmas pajamas and piled on the blankets, put on "It's A Wonderful Life," and exchanged gifts. So, you know, basically perfect.

On Saturday we drove up to my parents' house again for Christmas Eve with my mom's family, which every year includes a gift exchange with a whole lot of shouting ;) My gifts got stolen over and over, but I wound up with a new little cactus to bring home.

On Sunday we spent Christmas morning at my parent's house with my sister's little family. Christmas morning with my eighteen month old niece was so cute. I mean, she was mostly interested in collecting everyone's tissue paper and running around with all of the gift bags, but she also got so excited about some of her presents. We got her the cutest little baby doll, and she could barely wait for her dad to take it out of the package.

Sunday afternoon we drove down to Jeff's mom and stepdad's house to celebrate with his family and stayed the night out there. Between the seven of us we managed to exchange three copies of Settlers of Catan, so we ended the night with a pretty intense game - I managed to pull out a win!

Whew! That was a lot huh? Also, somewhere in there Jeff's dad managed to get engaged! I haven't heard all of the details yet but we're planning on celebrating next weekend in Vegas!!

I hope you had a good one!



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